Ladies, Is Your Love Real?
by Supanya Sosut (5/19/06)

Ever wonder if the relationship you’re in is based on Love or Lust? Have you asked yourself "Am I really in love?". Is it a true lasting love or just temporary attraction? Here’s how you can tell the difference.

Love

• You can talk openly about all aspects of love such as your fear, finances, children and each other’s goal in life.
• You can be open and honest with each other about your feelings and have no secrets.
• You can argue and then find a compromise at the end of the argument.
• You stand by each other in crisis, no matters what the outcome is.
• You’re willing to sacrifice to make the other person happy.
• You’re emotionally, mentally and physically compatible.
• You’re aware of your partner’s faults and can accept imperfection.
• You support and encourage each other.
• You take the time to listen and respect each other’s opinions.
• You’re good friends as well as lovers.

Lust

• You only know the little things about him, his favorite color, his pet names, etc.
• You’re afraid to ask him in-depth questions about his life.
• You don’t talk about how you’re feeling with each other and the frustration often causes you to resent each other.
• You find it hard to forgive each other.
• You don’t be there for each other in time of crisis.
• Your partner has wandering eyes and has proved to be untrustworthy.
• Your partner lies to you and his/her whereabouts and only confesses when caught.
• You criticize each other.
• Your partner will not allow you any personal space and wants to spend a lot of time with you.
• Your partner sets up high standards on you or the person you think your partner wants you to be.

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