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When Your Husband Does Not Love You Anymore

10/26/08

Women have an amazing instinct when it comes to their married life. No matter if a husband brings up an issue to them or not, women can always feel that something is wrong between them. I am talking about a very common problem in Indian marriages when a husband starts losing interests in his wife after a couple of years of their marriage.

Do you find your partner watching TV more often for most of the day even when it is a weekend or holiday? Do you notice that he does not spend much intimate time with you anymore? If you can count on fingers the number of times you became intimate in last few months, most likely he has lost interest in you.

I know there are probably thousand of jokes written on wives losing interest in their husbands after a few years and men are no exception to it. But whosoever initiates the situation, it is definitely not a good sign for a marriage.

So what should you do when you first notice the above signs? The good news is that you do not need to worry about if you are going to face a divorce from your husband. The situation can be easily controlled and you can make your husband fall in love with you again.

I do not agree with communicating about the problem with your husband initially. Most men will not agree to face the fact that they do not love their wives anymore. So, initially, DO something about it rather than TALKING about it.

The best way to tackle the situation is to try spending more and more quality time with your husband.  You can join him when he watches the TV on a holiday. You can talk about his favorite show and make him feel your presence around you.  Similarly, you can plan for any activity like going to a theater or a restaurant on a weekend.

The main idea is to do something for your husband everyday that will make him feel that you really care for him. If you notice things changing positively, try to get the romance back to your married life again. Next step will be to involve your husband in some romantic activities. Ideally, you should plan for an activity that reminds him of your intimacy a few years back. If everything goes fine, you may start noticing your frequency of being intimate with your husband too.

Finally, if nothing works even after your several efforts, it is high time when you should TALK about it. Try to tell your husband what you expect from your relationship and try to convince him that you both have to work to make it better. If you do not come to some conclusion even after communication, I think, a marriage counselor can make this job much easier for you.

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