by Tanmita Chatterjee

When Should Men Call After First Date

7/17/08

Most of the guys live in to an illusion that they can get that girl easily after their successful dates. I agree that hundreds of guys possess natural ability to pick up the girls as they are cool and their dates are really good but there are many other who need some assistance. At least I know many of this kind. Ideally guys can learn from the other guys who are very successful with women and analyze who they behave and act with girls on/after dates. But not everybody lives in a city that is hometown of playboys. So, here are a few thumb rules to follow.  

While asking for her email or phone number during date, never use sentences like will “Can I have your phone number please?” Use a very positive language instead. You can say something like, “Hey, It is really nice time that we are sharing right now. I hope we could talk some other times as well. Is there any mail id or phone number I can reach you at?” You can easily notice how easy it is to get a girls number when you use a positive and confident language.  

Next, for how many days should I wait before I call her? Ideally, you should never call her up just next day. It will project you as – desperate for her and it can turn her off. Just after you come home after a date, wait for a few minutes, call her up and tell her how beautiful it was with her, you enjoyed her company and shut up for a couple of days. During this time, she will surely think of you trying to make a call to her, and when you don’t do that for first two days, it drives her crazy and she may keep guessing if something wrong happened. And when you make a call after two or three days, use positive language again and invite her to have fun with you again.  

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