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The State Of Perfectly Single

by Kris Lazaro

Why is it that seemingly ‘perfect’ people have trouble falling in love? Is it because they have such high standards that no one can ever fulfill them? Is it due to their selective nature? Or are they just merely unlucky? This article will hopefully shed some light into this topic as we delve into the psyche of ‘perfect’ people and their dating habits.

First off, what is meant to be ‘perfect’? This is merely a relative term that people use to describe those who are above average, or those who seem too good to be true. In this article, the term ‘perfect’ will be used to refer to those people who are generally good people who have a good heart and are sympathetic, caring, and generous. These types of people deserve the best that the world offers, but often, they are the last ones who end up finding love. These people can sometimes have such high standards that it is almost impossible to find their desired qualities in another.

Another reason why such people find unhappiness in love might lie not in others, but in themselves. As the common adage goes, in order for one to love another, one must love one’s self first. ‘Perfect’ people may have insecurities in themselves, and not recognize this. They may not entirely like themselves, and hence, they are unable to give love to another human being. The author recommends that if one has any doubts about themselves, that they realize the problem first and then work on alleviating the problem. One has to be comfortable with one’s self before one can be comfortable with another.

‘Perfect’ people also date differently. Sometimes they expect too much from their dates and often feel short-changed or feel a sense of insufficiency after the rendezvous. They place such high esteem on their date, that if their date falls short of their expectations, the ‘perfect’ person will feel dissatisfied with the whole situation. In this case, the author recommends that the ‘perfect’ person realize that not everyone in the world is ‘perfect’. Humans are not infallible and are prone to make mistakes. Practically, one has to compromise and be flexible, especially in issues dealing with love.

In closing, ‘perfect’ people are just those who have high expectations of themselves and others. Often, these types of people place such high values on others that no one can ever fulfill them. These people must realize that not everyone is like them and are not flawless. To find love, these people must make compromises and keep their hearts open for love to take its natural course.

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