by Tanmita Chatterjee

Psychological First Impressions

7/17/08

It does not create a difference if you regularly meet a woman before you date her. But when you approach the same woman for a date, your first impression will always matter. I can remember this friend of mine from Bangalore who would usually meet a guy in a gym. After a few days they decided to meet at Barista and all what happened there was tragic.

This guy went to date her in a track suit and a simple t-shirt thinking that that’s how they see each other everyday and hence the girl would feel more comfortable this way. On the contrary, this girl was beautifully dressed up, and so felt very awkward and embarrassed on her first date. Sad to say but this girl always avoided this guy after this event and this became the end of their relationship.  

Most guys are well acquainted with the basic of the game; a good shower, nice and mild perfume and deo-spary, cut nose hair, get the shave, and get a good hair style etc. what most guys do not understand is that women are very particular about the way their partner is dressed up. If you wear a simple rough pair of jeans and regular t-shirt, you convey a message that you care least about what she wants. I, of course, do not want you to fill up your wardrobe with expensive clothing and empty your bank account but you must have some good pairs for special events like a date.  

Next, do not wear clothes that are so damn stylish that you can not wear them even twice. Classical stuff with a blend of style will solve the purpose. Most importantly, never forget to put on good pair of shoes. After you are nicely dressed up enough to catch her attention, half of the battle is won. The next step is to create a good environment to create a good impression. Use your sense of humor, creativity, confidence, power, aspiration and success to impress her and she will always want to keep her in her memories.

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