by Tanmita Chatterjee

How to Do A First Kiss... Even With Traditional Women from India

8/6/08

You are dating her for a couple of days. You have developed a good relationship and she feels comfortable with you. But the problem is that you have still not got your first kiss. 

If the things do not change soon, you, probably, are not going to get it as a lover. Getting your first kiss as a lover needs a lot of things to be taken care of. It should be smooth and must not be done all of a sudden. Here are a few ideas how you can get your first kiss.  

Don’t Be That Guy 

The most important thing to get your first kiss is to get her into MOOD. If you keep on talking to her about your daily routine and casual issues, you will never be able to initiate it. The idea is to stop behaving like a guy who talks about only regular issues. You must constantly tease her, challenge her, and ask her to prove herself to win your approvals.

Once you start such conversation, you have almost initiated the first step. Next, you should trigger her to talk about her dreams and passion. Most women are very emotional by nature. Once you trigger them to talk emotionally, they will feel more attached to you.  

Talk to her, in general, what are her expectations for a lover and relationship. Talk to her about romantic situations, stories and that is how she will slowly get into the mood.   

Start With Romantic Touches 

Most girls in India do not feel comfortable touching and so you should not touch any girl until you notice her consent while touching her. I don’t mean that you should start touching her whenever you want but you need to initiate it in a different way so that she does not mind it. Initially, I find playful touching to be very successful. I mean tickling, play fighting, poking her, or hitting her gently as you walk. This is pretty safe and it will create some arousal too. Something like her poking or hitting you gently and laughing at the same time is best. Once she is comfortable with playful touching, you need to go to the next stage and start touching her romantically.

To start romantic touches, you need to initially start with an excuse like watching her bracelet or ring, putting your arm around her, touching hair etc. But make sure you make an excuse before you start all this.  

Seduce Her for a Kiss 

Now you have got the idea as how to touch and talk to her. But the real trick is missing. Seduction is the most important aspect to get a kiss from her. You must focus on a slow and romantic speech, strong eye contact, and gazing at her as if she is the most beautiful lady you ever met. This will definitely get her into mood. Next, don’t ever do it suddenly.

Males are seduced by visions. Males need to see to get into the mood. While Females are aroused by voice. So, you can even tell her that you would be privileged to kiss her.

Finally look at her lips, hold your gaze for a second. If she is seduced or looks at you as she is ready, it’s on!

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