by Tanmita Chatterjee

How To Deal With Possessive Girls You Date?  

8/6/08

Gone are the days when guys used to date only single woman, figure out if she was the one and would move on to the next relationship if not satisfied. Nowadays, both men and women like to date multiple people until they find someone whom they can be committed to. Often, we encounter many girls that want a guy not to date other girls. The situation becomes even more tedious when we agree to them so that they are not hurt and often get stuck into difficult situations. Many times, we find ourselves difficult to answer the phone calls from other girls whom we date when we are with such a girl.  

This has to be stopped. You need to understand that a possessive girl will always try to make you responsible for her insecurity. When you commit not to date other women, you give her all the powers to come back to you and say how mean and bad you are. You can also be blamed for taking her advantage. Everyone must understand that we are not responsible for the emotional well being of our dates no matter how much we care. Any possessive girl, if she demands, must not be given a commitment like this.  

I believe that there is a much better way to deal with such women. First, if she asks you for a commitment of not to date anyone except her, simply try to act as it is funny thing for you keeping in mind that you both have your own ways to go. And the most important thing is NEVER to tell her that you date others as well or let her figure it out.

Most men do this mistake. They tell a possessive girl that they are dating other women also, and that is how such women become so cautious that sometime you may notice them finding even a single different color hair in your car.  

Whenever there is a situation that you need to attend any phone call from another girl while you are with her, just say something like “Hey, I am a bit busy right now. Can I talk to you after sometime as when I get free?” Then tell her that “It was a call from a friend asking you for…” Then focus your entire attention on her. If you can somehow manage your cell phone not to carry with you, it will do a great job too.  

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