by Tanmita Chatterjee

Getting Over Relationship Rejection

8/6/08

If you are no different than other men, you are probably one of those who fear of relationship rejection. Rejection in relationship is very common nowadays. It does not mean that you deserved that, but just that you had to put your effort some other possible way. What I feel is the most important step towards overcoming rejection is to take small steps in the direction of fear of rejection. Yes! I mean that you should FACE it instead of walking away from it.  

If you read thousands of literatures on overcoming rejection, you are not going to achieve anything at the end of the day. You must start practicing to solve the problem, and that is the best way to resolve the problem. To start with, find a friend of yours whom you think is honest with you. If it is a female one, it is better, but it really does not matter if it is male of female. Once you find out a friend, you need to practice what will you say or how will you respond when a possible situation arises when you can be rejected.  

Ask your friend to behave in a variety of ways; sometime annoyed, angry or even irritated sometime. And each time you face a rejection, figure out someway to deal with it quickly.  

Let us say you meet a beautiful girl, talk for a few minutes and suddenly she says that she has to leave. She does not bother how you feel and you know she is never going to give you her phone number. Frustrating, isn’t it?  

Now practice the same with your friend. Ask her to give you some stupid answer that makes you feel rejected. For instance, if you hear something like, “Ok! Actually I am getting late. I think I should leave now.”  

You can say something like, “Oh! That’s nice, Actually I forgot to tell you that my friend is waiting for me as well. How about talking some other time? Call me whenever you are comfortable. (You hand over your number)”.

The more casual and cool you are, you better ideas and lines will strike your head. After practicing this for sometime, you may easily notice that you are actually prepared to face any situation when a girl can reject you. Remember, this small exercise can turn your fear of rejection into your victory.

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