What Does a Kiss on the First Date Mean? Girl's Kiss First Time

7/21/08

It is extremely difficult for me to admit that girls do not like to be kissed on their first dates. Unlike other countries, Indian girls take kissing on the first date very seriously, may be it is very uncommon here or they are just uncomfortable with the whole idea as it is the first time for them. Whatever it is, one must learn the basics of the kissing on the first date. Kissing a woman is an art and game and it requires a lot of practice and talent as well. Once you know a few critical rules, you can always go ahead with kissing on the first date.  

The most important aspect to get a kiss is to check the comfort level of a girl. The more comfortable she is, the fairer your chances are. Next, you must check how she responds to you when you communicate. To start with, do this little trick to get the idea.

Try to look into her eyes and give an honest and romantic comment on her. Hold your gaze at her for a few extra seconds and notice how she responds. If she responds positively through a reply or a smile, there are fair chances for you, but if she feels shy and nervous, probably, she is not yet ready for the moment.  

If she responds positively while you communicate, the next thing you must check is her comfort level when you touch her. I do not mean any casual touching here. If you are good and decent on your dates, girls will hardly mind a casual and friendly touch like one when you pass the cup of coffee to her. You should focus more on a romantic touch. Romantic touches are normal touches on hands or shoulder for a slightly longer duration than normal. If she does not respond positively, you should go back to some more casual touching until she becomes comfortable with it. What if she never responds positively when you touch her? All females are different and if she completely feels uncomfortable even with a casual touch, probably your chances are one in a million! 

When you pass the touching test as well, be ready for your first kiss as certainly, you are on the right track. Next, when you are about to do it, never be predictable that you are going to DO something. Let it just happen all of a sudden followed by a few romantic lines and it will never make your girl feel embarrassed or awkward. A friend of mine, on his first date said something like [he comes a bit closer to the girl, smiles and says], “You know, I really enjoyed talking to you today. Thanks for such a wonderful time. You are a great girl and I was wondering if there could be something else I could do to make this day unforgettable. [A gentle and very short duration kiss on girl’s cheek] Now I think I just did. [He walks away confidently with a smile]”  

The rules will be the same with any girl that you are with -- be it Indian born desis or ABCD girls.

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