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by Tanmita Chatterjee

How To Tell If A First Date Went Well?

7/17/08

Are you one of those guys who have no clue of their failure in attracting women? Generally, we hear a lot of guys talking about various problems they face with girls.

For example, “I behaved perfectly on my first date but she did not give me her phone number. I can’t understand why she was not attracted to me.”

Or something like, “I really behave like a true friend with her and give her whatever she demands but I am not able to figure out why she does not still feel for me the same way as I do” 

How do you know if your first date went well?

These scenarios may be quite different from each other but there is something common between them. Mostly when guys take girls out for a date or for just a meeting, the biggest mistake they do is trying to push her into a feeling that she is attracted them. In such a case, the girls become bored very easily.

Here are a few reasons why girls become bored very easily in such a situation.  

1. Being very cautious about what you say and what you do. Thinking a lot before you say anything lest she should be upset. In short, you want to play it all safe. A good way to cure this is to know how to keep conversations going and start new ones.  
2. You start talking about boring things like your work, job, family, movies or weather etc. 
3. You have no idea how to do anything interesting.  

I remember how most guys like to play all safe on their first dates. They talk on general topics and act like the nicest person on this planet but ah! That’s a huge mistake. Frankly speaking, you make her bored to death when you act in such a way. When opposite gender meets, it is the time for fun and something interesting not for an encyclopedic discussion of anyone’s life or issues. So, the thumb rule is, DO NOT TALK ABOUT YOUR FAMILY AND JOB.  

Next, how does a boring guy act? He feels very nervous and uncomfortable with girls, agree with almost everything what she says, ask girl her choice every time or pose her body in way that girl figures out that he is uncomfortable. This is a real good start to kill your date.

Here are a few ideas.  

• Take her to a place where you can talk of interesting things. It could be a good shopping mall or trendy shops.
• Try to make her speak asking questions, analyze what she says and then produce some humor out of it. It is all about being a combination of nice, cocky and funny at the same time. They thumb rule is to remain UNPREDICTABLE all the time as the moment she can figure out your next action, you start becoming boring.

Some of you may believe that if you kiss on a first date that it automatically means you have done well. But that may not necessarily be the case. Kissing can have alternative meanings. But if you want to know the direction of your relationship if that does happen, make sure you book a second date fast.

Good luck in having a good first date and knowing that it went well!

Other First Date Articles

1. Conversation Starters for First Date
2. Questions to Ask your First Date
3. Teen First Date Tips
4. What does a Kiss on the First Date Mean?
5. What to Cook for a First Date?

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